Advice on housing insecurity and accommodation situations

Service Accommodation and relationship breakdown

On this page you will find information about:

  • You and your family's rights if you are currently serving.
  • Your rights if you are not service personnel but you have been living in Service Family Accommodation (SFA).
  • More helpful resources.

If you are currently serving in HM Armed Forces

If you are living in Service Family Accommodation (SFA) and you separate from your partner, divorce or dissolve a civil partnership, your housing entitlement can change.

If you have children

  • If your children continue to live with you in Service Family Accommodation (SFA), your entitlement may remain the same.
  • If your children move out of the SFA, your entitlement to SFA will come to an end.

If you don't have children

  • your entitlement to SFA will come to an end.

You will have to notify Defence Infrastructure Organisation (DIO) of the change in your circumstances and relationship status. If your entitlement to SFA is affected by this change, you will usually be given 93 days' notice to leave your SFA. After the change to your SFA entitlement, you will be allocated Single Living Accommodation (SLA) instead.

Learn more about housing options for serving personnel here on the RBL website.

If you are not Service personnel

If you separate, divorce or dissolve a civil partnership, your right to stay in family quarters comes to an end and you will have to find alternative accommodation.

As a former dependant of a Service person, you may be allowed to stay in your home for a limited time on compassionate grounds. However, this is at the discretion of the Armed Services.

Failure to find alternative accommodation and remain in family quarters could lead to you being issued with an eviction notice (usually giving you 93 days' notice) and you may end up paying trespass damages.

If you have already received an eviction notice you should contact the Housing Allocations Service Centre on 0800 169 6322.

If you have been served your 93-day notice for eviction, you will be able to ask the Defense Infrastructure Organisation (DIO) for a Certificate of Cessation of Entitlement to Occupy SFA to in turn apply as homeless to your local council before the end of the eviction period.

Find more information about applying as homeless, and receiving housing support, before leaving the Armed Forces Community on the RBL Knowledge Base website.

If you are concerned about being homeless following a relationship breakdown, please see our section on homelessness on the RBL Knowledge Base website. We are here to provide information and guidance to help you.

Trialling a separation

Before you decide for certain whether to end your relationship, and therefore your entitlement to SFA, the MOD provides Serving Personnel the option to trial separation through a "cooling off period." This gives them the option to stay in alternative Single Living Accommodation while their family remain in their SFA for up to 93 days, before having to fully register the end of their relationship. During this trial period, the Serving Personnel will still have to pay for the SFA that their family is currently living in.

Learn more about how a separation will affect SFA entitlement on the MOD website.

Contact Houses: can I have my children come and stay with me?

Contact Houses are houses or flats that are available to Service Personnel, and their families, who need temporary accommodation for short periods of time.

Contact Houses can be used by currently serving personnel who are separated or single parents to book and stay in when they have their children with them, for example for the weekend.

Get in touch with your Welfare point of contact who will be able to advise you about what is available locally to you.

To find out more about the support the RBL could offer you, contact us via

Telephone: 0808 802 8080
Telephone overseas: +44 (0)20 3376 8080
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Email: [email protected]

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